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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Vanity, Thy Name Is Randy (And I’m Embracing Her)
I am turning 58 next Thursday, and I have decided I want abs. Not metaphorical abs. Not “abs are made in the kitchen” abs. Not…
Recent Writing
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The Fruit Doesn’t Lie
Conservative Evangelical Christianity taught me that you could identify a true Christian by their fruit. It’s right there in Galatians 5:22-23 —…
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My Story, Out Loud
Last week I sat down with my friend Joe Brummer for his podcast, and we talked. Not just about the exgay chapter…
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Where Does He Find the Time? (A Confession)
Someone asked me recently where I’ve been finding all this extra time to write. It’s a fair question. The posts have been…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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