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Trying to Hear Myself Think While the Universe Bangs Pots and Pans
Welcome back to Mugwump Ramblings, where I try to untangle my inner chaos while the world plays a kazoo solo in the background. This week, I’m attempting something radical: listening. Not to the news, not…
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Sexplorer: Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me Before I Started Having Sex Again
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, mistakes, discoveries, and the kind of laughter that escapes your body like a startled goose the moment you admit you’re just winging it. Going from…
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I Wasn’t Broken–Just Sprouting Weirdly
Fridays are for the softer stuff: the lessons, the stumbles, the small victories, and the moments that remind me I’m still here, still trying, still becoming. I didn’t get it For most of my life,…
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My Brain on Breaking News: A Love Hate Relationship
Every morning I sit down with a cup of coffee, a pensive look, and some Ibuprofen. Then I try to make sense of a world that rarely makes sense back. Mugwump Ramblings is the section…
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Sexplorer-The First Time I Realized Sex Could Be Playful, Not Performative
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, mistakes, discoveries, and the kind of laughter that only happens when you stop pretending you know what you’re doing. For most of my life, sex…
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The Art of Beginning Again (For the 47th Time)
Fridays are for the softer stuff: the lessons, the stumbles, the small victories, and the moments that remind me I’m still here, still trying, still becoming. The skill of a Phoenix If there’s one thing…
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Why I Still Believe in Nuance (Even When the Internet Doesn’t)
Hot takes are easy. Humanity is harder. Every morning I sit down with a cup of coffee, a pensive look, and some Ibuprofen. Then I try to make sense of a world that rarely makes…
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Sexplorer–Seducing Straight Couples Was Not On My Bingo Card
And, it happened at a church Valentine’s Day event… I just wanted to sell a painting. She stared at my painting, tears streaming down her cheeks, and whispered, “That’s just… so beautiful.” First time anyone’s…
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The WHY & Pray Away Hangover
A not‑so‑serious survival guide to life after telling everyone your business. Welp, now what? Life after WHY and Pray Away has felt a little like sitting in a church basement after the potluck, surrounded by…
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Sexplorer–"Do you know what your name means in England?"
Yes, I do. And I live up to that “meaning” all the time. Being free to be Randy/randy has been a looooong journey. Them: “You’ve been asked the ‘randy’ question a lot, huh? To answer…
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