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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Four newsletters, one very human voice.
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Mugwump Ramblings — Serenity at 30,000 Feet While the World Behaves Like… the World
There’s nothing quite like preparing for a flight—already a full‑body exercise in surrender—while the news cycle is busy auditioning for the role of “background anxiety…
Recent Writing
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Sexplorer — My First Bathhouse Visit (A Cautionary Tale for the Overly Optimistic)
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, misadventures, revelations, and the kind of laughter that bursts out when you…
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The Light We Carry, The Shadow We Fear
There are moments when the past rises up like a shadow behind you, reminding you of where you came from and what…
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Wayfinder–The Man I Trusted, The Lie I Didn’t See
This week’s breadcrumb along the trail of my journey wasn’t gentle. It hit like a brick — one of those truths that…
Four Newsletters, One Voice
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
Sexplorer
My ongoing, occasionally chaotic field study of intimacy, desire, and whatever else my body decides to have opinions about.
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