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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Four newsletters, one very human voice.
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Bar Hopping While Queer: A Field Report from Seven Gay Bars Across Three Destinations
Welcome back to Sexplorer, where we go places, do things, and then tell you about it with more honesty than is probably advisable. This week’s…
Recent Writing
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I Will Not Let Them Have This Too
Thrive is a space where I write honestly about navigating life with full presence — the joy, the grief, the beauty, and…
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Wayfinder – I Have Returned. My Nervous System Has Not.
I have returned from two weeks of glorious, chaotic, full-volume vacation. My nervous system, however, is still floating somewhere over the Atlantic…
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Vacation Mode: Activated. Boundaries: Debatable
🚨 Programming Note from Your Wandering Narrator 🚨 Consider this your official notice that regular posts are technically on hold while I’m…
Four Newsletters, One Voice
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
Sexplorer
My ongoing, occasionally chaotic field study of intimacy, desire, and whatever else my body decides to have opinions about.
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