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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Four newsletters, one very human voice.
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Wayfinder–The Man I Trusted, The Lie I Didn’t See
This week’s breadcrumb along the trail of my journey wasn’t gentle. It hit like a brick — one of those truths that shows up late,…
Recent Writing
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My Nervous System Filed a Formal Complaint with HR
Welcome back to Mugwump Ramblings, the weekly dispatch from my brain’s least supervised corner. Last week, I tried to slow down. My…
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Sexplorer–The Slow Burn (Apparently I needed it)
✨ Quick update: Sexplorer is now free to read—indefinitely, just like the other sections. When I moved everything over, Substack’s paid statuses…
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The Part of Me I Forgot to Water
Some weeks I don’t realize how thirsty I am until I finally stop moving. This is one of those weeks. Thrive is…
Four Newsletters, One Voice
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
Sexplorer
My ongoing, occasionally chaotic field study of intimacy, desire, and whatever else my body decides to have opinions about.
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