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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Bread, Circuses, and a $60 Million Claw
Sweet baby Moses. Last night, while American families lose healthcare and trans kids lose their right to exist in public, the People’s House hosted a…
Recent Writing
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I’m Back. And Apparently, We Still Need to Have This Conversation.
A note before we begin: I’ve been on a little blog sabbatical. And the other day I found this comment waiting for…
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Pride and Joy (Whether You Like It or Not)
June has arrived, and with it comes rainbows, parades, glitter, and the annual conservative meltdown about all three. Let’s get something out…
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The Strange Math of Outlasting Your Own Past
There’s a feeling I don’t have a clean name for yet, which is annoying, because I’m a writer and naming things is…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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