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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Going Back Into Counseling. Again.
There’s a moment — and if you’ve been here before, you know the one — where you look at your life, take a long inventory…
Recent Writing
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Culture War: A Field Guide for the Bewildered
Or: How to Fight a War Nobody Can Find on a Map I’ve been hearing about the Culture War for years now.…
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Thirteen Years Free
Today is Juneteenth. I want to say that plainly and with the weight it deserves. Juneteenth marks the day in 1865 when…
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Joy Is Doing the Lord’s Work (And Honestly, It’s About Time)
There is a thing I believe with my whole entire being, and I have believed it quietly for years because I wasn’t…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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