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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Four newsletters, one very human voice.
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Vacation Mode: Activated. Boundaries: Debatable
🚨 Programming Note from Your Wandering Narrator 🚨 Consider this your official notice that regular posts are technically on hold while I’m on vacation through…
Recent Writing
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Wayfinder – Puerto Rico Is Beautiful and Apparently So Is My Midlife Clarity
By the time you read this, I’ll be stepping off a plane in Puerto Rico — that strange, liminal moment when the…
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Mugwump Ramblings — Serenity at 30,000 Feet While the World Behaves Like… the World
There’s nothing quite like preparing for a flight—already a full‑body exercise in surrender—while the news cycle is busy auditioning for the role…
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Sexplorer — My First Bathhouse Visit (A Cautionary Tale for the Overly Optimistic)
It’s Saturday, which means it’s time to talk about sex, misadventures, revelations, and the kind of laughter that bursts out when you…
Four Newsletters, One Voice
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
Sexplorer
My ongoing, occasionally chaotic field study of intimacy, desire, and whatever else my body decides to have opinions about.
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