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Life, Growth, and Intimacy
Hi there! My name is Randy and this is where I write about life, growth, and intimacy — basically all the things I should have figured out by now.
Three focal points on life from one very human voice.
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Pride and Joy (Whether You Like It or Not)
June has arrived, and with it comes rainbows, parades, glitter, and the annual conservative meltdown about all three. Let’s get something out of the way:…
Recent Writing
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The Strange Math of Outlasting Your Own Past
There’s a feeling I don’t have a clean name for yet, which is annoying, because I’m a writer and naming things is…
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Peter LaBarbera Is Wrong, And He Knows It
Let me be clear before I write another word: what Alan Chambers allegedly did is reprehensible. Full stop. No asterisk. A 14-year-old…
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Alan Chambers, an Arrest, and the Grief I Can’t Perform Away
I know I am supposed to be on a blogging break. But, this tragedy happened. I wanted to write about Alan’s arrest…
Three focal points on life from one very human voice…
Mugwump Ramblings
My weekly attempt to make sense of the world so I can fight for life instead of being run over by it.
Wayfinder
A midweek dispatch from the part of me that wanders off emotionally and sends back cryptic little postcards.
Thrive
Where I check in on my personal growth and discover, yet again, that I don’t have to have “issues” to deal with.
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