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The Thrive Newsletter w/ Randy Scobey

The Thrive Newsletter w/ Randy Scobey

I have had a journey that looks like a ping pong ball in a clothes dryer! I learned not only to survive but to thrive in living my super-gay life. My memoir, WHY: A Memoir (foreword by Anne Heche) is now available on Amazon and all major bookstores.

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Thrive w/ Randy Scobey on Indefinite Pause

Ask-It Basket

Ask It Basket–"In your memoir, did you feel it was important to talk about your sexuality and sexual experiences?"

Why or why not?

Apr 18

How Did You Get Anne Heche To Write The Foreword To Your Memoir?

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Ask It Basket–What obstacles did you confront when you made the choice to depart from the ex-gay movement? (Part 2 of 2)

Life goes on, & with great joy, so did mine. This post is about destroying a "calling" to rebuild a career and losing my friends & support to find…

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