They sign up for what they believe is a game changing idea that turns into a nightmare. In my opinion, ex-gay ideology is an example of a "mainstreamed" cult...
I think there are a lot cult-like aspects to my “ex-gay” experience — the idolization of a leader’s personal experience, emotional manipulation, the collection of embarrassing personal confessions, (literal) demonization of all contrary outside information, high upfront personal investment, highly controlled sexual expression, lack of any professional oversight, lovebombing new recruits, shunning ex-members, etc.
And yet it depends on specific “ex-gay” programs and one’s definition of cult.
I’ve learned more about cults and harmful wellness practices from the IndoctriNation and Conspirituality podcasts.
I think there are a lot cult-like aspects to my “ex-gay” experience — the idolization of a leader’s personal experience, emotional manipulation, the collection of embarrassing personal confessions, (literal) demonization of all contrary outside information, high upfront personal investment, highly controlled sexual expression, lack of any professional oversight, lovebombing new recruits, shunning ex-members, etc.
And yet it depends on specific “ex-gay” programs and one’s definition of cult.
I’ve learned more about cults and harmful wellness practices from the IndoctriNation and Conspirituality podcasts.